Male 33yr old with sex question?

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Milo

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I have been married for 6 years now to my high school sweetheart. We used to have sex 5 times a day before we got married, I got married at 24. Well, we have been having sex, minimum once a week. Lately, when we have sex I can't get it up for long. It gets soft after a while. It's very dissapointing. This never happens to me before. I still find her attractive and I still want to have sex. I have been really busy with work but I have been busy before too but could still get it up until the whole intercourse are over. Is it my age? Or is it something serious? I kept telling my wife, that I could be tired due to work. But I make sure she achieve her big O by other ways.

Please...serious answers only. thank you in advance.
yes, I've been married for 9 years(sorry typo error). We have been having sex way before we got married. We are now blessed with 2 kids. My wife is still hot, when doesn't even look like a mother of 2 or her real age. I'm afraid if I keep going on this way, she might have an affair. She has been very loyal and still is and I know she loves me but I can't help thinking if I keep this up, she might find younger guys more interesting.
I will talk to my wife about this. She is very supportive so far. I hope she understands. I might seek help and get proper meds. Thank you all.
 
your probably getting to the age that it,s hard to keep an erection. that,s what viagra is for. another thing if your taking any kind of medication then that can do it too. i had to go to my dr. and be checked out then he gave me samples of viagra and it worked wonders for me. maybe that,s what you should do. it also could be from stress like about your work.
 
Dont worry. I have been married twice and went through the same with both husbands. It is a part of life. You are NORMAL.
 
Hey I know you said you are busy but exercise is very important it's all about blood flow. Get her involved too throw out a few sexual comments to get you both worked up.You might try vitamin E also. It helps with elasticity of arteries if you smoke stop.Congratulations sounds like you have a great wife don't let her go,let her know she is important to you and you are working on the issue.
 
You probably have erectile dysfunction. There is nothing that you can do i'm afraid, but viagra may temporarily solve the problem. There are many guys suffering from this problem, so don't worry too much. You might want to see a doctor - just to double check! I hope this helps. :-)
 
welcome to the 30's, I am 35 now and I used to be nonstop sexually, now I can't even get off most days, it happens, you can ignore it, add some toys to get excited, or pills, which I wouldn't take myself, but I hear good things about them
 
The more pressure you put on yourself the worse it'll get. Talk to your wife, honestly, tell her exactly what is going on so she doesn't get a complex. which if left unsaid could lead to a divide between you. Then together you can try new things. Spice things up with role play or toys or whatever feels comfortable for you both. At the end of the day it's something that happens with age and as you said there are other ways to enjoy yourselves without having sex. Stress less, and talk more! good luck x
 
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