Had a bad day at work yest and something went wrong, noones fault, not mine or anyones, it just happened, but the way it was dealt with, partly by me, partly by colleagues, wasnt as good as it should have been.
I was partly responsible in dealing with the problem, and, I lost my confidence in the spur of the moment,freaked out a bit, and things didnt go well as it should have, I should have shown more leadership, as it was part of my duties, but I didnt act as confident as I could have.
I regret it now and have learnt my lesson and am really, really annoyed and p***ed off with myself
I am not in trouble and some of my senior colleagues/my boss showed some empathy, but I think my 2 colleagues, I was working with at the time, (one in particular, sue, may think less of me.) I have asked them if they are OK with how things went, and we have debriefed so to speak, (chatted about it) and they said yes, and we went home. But I am worried, that sue ( who is younger and much more assertive/cofnident than me) may talk about me to her freinds at work about what happened and i may be the subject of gossip or talk.
I have learnt my lesson, know what i did wrong, and i want to move on and not dwell on it. how can I and should I act normal when I see this colleague sue on monday.
we all get stressed on the spur of the moment, just hope that super confident
sue realises this..
thnks for genuine advice, no nasty comments.
I hope i wont be talked about and thing will settle, in time,i have to work with sue next week, and dont want her to think i am incompetent or stupid or not talk to me.
I was partly responsible in dealing with the problem, and, I lost my confidence in the spur of the moment,freaked out a bit, and things didnt go well as it should have, I should have shown more leadership, as it was part of my duties, but I didnt act as confident as I could have.
I regret it now and have learnt my lesson and am really, really annoyed and p***ed off with myself
I am not in trouble and some of my senior colleagues/my boss showed some empathy, but I think my 2 colleagues, I was working with at the time, (one in particular, sue, may think less of me.) I have asked them if they are OK with how things went, and we have debriefed so to speak, (chatted about it) and they said yes, and we went home. But I am worried, that sue ( who is younger and much more assertive/cofnident than me) may talk about me to her freinds at work about what happened and i may be the subject of gossip or talk.
I have learnt my lesson, know what i did wrong, and i want to move on and not dwell on it. how can I and should I act normal when I see this colleague sue on monday.
we all get stressed on the spur of the moment, just hope that super confident
sue realises this..
thnks for genuine advice, no nasty comments.
I hope i wont be talked about and thing will settle, in time,i have to work with sue next week, and dont want her to think i am incompetent or stupid or not talk to me.