Hey im a 16 year old guy, i could have lost my virginity awhile back but im not sure if i should do it. Should i wait for the right girl the one i will really love or just finish it. Most of my friends arent virgins...but i dont feel like i have ever really loved a girl...also if i do find that special someone i've been thinking that she probably wont be a virgin so why should i wait?...well just some thoughts bouncing around in my head...any comments or suggestions?
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You don't have to anything that you're not ready for, just wait to lose your virginity if you really want to find that right person. Until then, Mr. Righty (hand) will be right their with you forever and always... Unless it gets choped off, and then you got Mr. Lefty, unless he gets chopped off. If that happens I guess you should learn ot use your feet, there will be no use in holding on to your virginity then, especially with no hands and feet. Wait what was I talking about?
Ah, the virginity race. Just another thing teenagers can brag about because they have nothing else worth talking about that is intellectual. When I was your age, I was in no hurry to lose my virginity. It's not as if it was required of me. Besides, finding someone worth having sex for the first time with is a challenge. If you just want to blow it all away with some chick that you're not really into, then go ahead. Just remember to wear rubber.
You shouldn't have sex until you are ABSOLUTELY sure that you are ready. Its not something to rush into. Don't let other people pressure you into having sex just because they have. And when you do decide to have sex be safe because you don't want to catch anything or have a child you aren't ready for.
I think this is really sweet that you're questioning it.. but because you're questioning it, you should definately wait! Wait until you find someone that you really love and can forever think back on and remember how much that meant to you. It's not cheesy, it's cute, and special 
And I stayed a virgin until I was 16 (i know, kinda young, but not too young!) and I knew I wanted to wait until I found someone that I wouldn't regret it with... sooooooo, I waited, met someone, and figured he'd never be a virgin. He was, and it just made it that much more special. But if he wasn't a virgin, it wouldn't have made that much of a different considering it was special.. just because it was with somene that I cared about so much
Hope I helped!
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And I stayed a virgin until I was 16 (i know, kinda young, but not too young!) and I knew I wanted to wait until I found someone that I wouldn't regret it with... sooooooo, I waited, met someone, and figured he'd never be a virgin. He was, and it just made it that much more special. But if he wasn't a virgin, it wouldn't have made that much of a different considering it was special.. just because it was with somene that I cared about so much
Hope I helped!
<3
You shouldn't have sex until you are ABSOLUTELY sure that you are ready. Its not something to rush into. Don't let other people pressure you into having sex just because they have. And when you do decide to have sex be safe because you don't want to catch anything or have a child you aren't ready for.
I think this is really sweet that you're questioning it.. but because you're questioning it, you should definately wait! Wait until you find someone that you really love and can forever think back on and remember how much that meant to you. It's not cheesy, it's cute, and special
And I stayed a virgin until I was 16 (i know, kinda young, but not too young!) and I knew I wanted to wait until I found someone that I wouldn't regret it with... sooooooo, I waited, met someone, and figured he'd never be a virgin. He was, and it just made it that much more special. But if he wasn't a virgin, it wouldn't have made that much of a different considering it was special.. just because it was with somene that I cared about so much
Hope I helped!
<3
And I stayed a virgin until I was 16 (i know, kinda young, but not too young!) and I knew I wanted to wait until I found someone that I wouldn't regret it with... sooooooo, I waited, met someone, and figured he'd never be a virgin. He was, and it just made it that much more special. But if he wasn't a virgin, it wouldn't have made that much of a different considering it was special.. just because it was with somene that I cared about so much
Hope I helped!
<3