TODD HAMILTON
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Losing virginity and lied ? Will this fix the situation? Opinions?
I had lied about losing my virginity in a orgy my freshman year of highschool. What really happened is I watched because my friend had a girl over that he and his friends were having fun with on his bithday. I didn't do anything because of fear, my shyness, and my total disgust for this girl who just willing took off her clothes. I DIDN"T METION A NAME TO THESE PEOPLE EITHER.This lie got out of hand fast as this girl I likes really teases me about it. Since the topic is brought up I have to face people looking at me like a stud or man whore. I said this to group of people who were talking about crazy stories. The girl I liked told a story that made me feel like had to be up to her level to be accepted by her and I know now that was dumb. Anyways her friend Seger heard this story and like flipped he was like WHAT and now he teases me with her about it sometimes. They will say thats a good story to tell your kids one day or say I gave her rohypnol or I had a threesome. It is hard to just ignore them or the topic because they will talk about it. Anyways I have a friend in this class who I want to let in on it as I am positive I can trust him. I was planning to text him after school today and tell him when no ones around. I want to try and make it come off as a inside joke between a group of friends and try to laugh it off. Just saying I was kidding is too late now plus I don't want to surprise everyone at once. It might come off as funny and If I say money is involved like a bet then maybe Seger wouldn't give me ****. To the girl I want to come clean more than anything and everytime she teases me about it I just feel the pain of lying. I really though have a problems with opening up and can't really do it to anyone. I mean my parents I feel about saying I love you I mean I just feel weird. I just feel It is going to make me look pathetic especially if I just say I lied and all trust will be lost before I even start a relationship with this girl.
I had lied about losing my virginity in a orgy my freshman year of highschool. What really happened is I watched because my friend had a girl over that he and his friends were having fun with on his bithday. I didn't do anything because of fear, my shyness, and my total disgust for this girl who just willing took off her clothes. I DIDN"T METION A NAME TO THESE PEOPLE EITHER.This lie got out of hand fast as this girl I likes really teases me about it. Since the topic is brought up I have to face people looking at me like a stud or man whore. I said this to group of people who were talking about crazy stories. The girl I liked told a story that made me feel like had to be up to her level to be accepted by her and I know now that was dumb. Anyways her friend Seger heard this story and like flipped he was like WHAT and now he teases me with her about it sometimes. They will say thats a good story to tell your kids one day or say I gave her rohypnol or I had a threesome. It is hard to just ignore them or the topic because they will talk about it. Anyways I have a friend in this class who I want to let in on it as I am positive I can trust him. I was planning to text him after school today and tell him when no ones around. I want to try and make it come off as a inside joke between a group of friends and try to laugh it off. Just saying I was kidding is too late now plus I don't want to surprise everyone at once. It might come off as funny and If I say money is involved like a bet then maybe Seger wouldn't give me ****. To the girl I want to come clean more than anything and everytime she teases me about it I just feel the pain of lying. I really though have a problems with opening up and can't really do it to anyone. I mean my parents I feel about saying I love you I mean I just feel weird. I just feel It is going to make me look pathetic especially if I just say I lied and all trust will be lost before I even start a relationship with this girl.