Long distance relashionship advice?

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Hi I am 13.my problem is I like this guy I knew since third grade. But I moved two hours away and recently found him on facebook. He told me he really liked me too. Now when I try to date people I go to school with now I feel weird and don't like it. I really don't know what to do! If I date him will the distance tear us apart or should I just try to forget and keep that pain and agony inside me?
 
Honestly unless you guys can get a ride every weekend to see each other for at least couple of hrs it won't work. Physical contact is important in a relationship. Not everything can be online. You guys need to hang out and experience the feeling of being with each other. However, I know how hard it's to let go of a crush!!! So if you can't let it go just try it and learn from your experience. Remember life is the best teacher you could ever have.
Good Luck!!
 
If you really like him, then go for it. You can still be happy if you two do connect, and there will probably be opportunities for you two to visit each other (two hours really isn't that much). Having a long distance relationship really isn't as bad as some people say it is. In some ways it's better, because if you can have a good relationship with someone you aren't always having physical contact with it'll be a better relationship in the long run then one where the people must always be able to touch each other. You also learn to like the person instead of just enjoy affection.

Hopefully if it does happen; the guy won't try to go out with girls at his school and he will be loyal; so I wish you the best of luck.
 
ur 13 nd u hav alot of time so dnt worry about it. stop causin urself unecessary pain
 
I would let him go, honestly there's not much you can do at 13 years old and that far away from each other. Move onto other people and try to get over him.
 
Girl, you're 13! Although I was dating when I was 13, it's nothing to get too serious about. Long distance relationship can work out, it's easier if one or both of you can drive though. I would suggest for right now being really good friends. Talk on the phone and on the internet, keep the relationship going, but don't commit yourself to it. There are a million fish in the sea and at your age you don't need to find the "right guy" you have your whole life ahead of you. And if it's meant to be, when you two get older and able to see each other more, maybe it will evolve into a relationship, 2 hours isn't that far apart, but it's far enough. Focus on school first and not boys, as dorky as that may sound it's your best bet right now. A boyfriend just to have one seems like a good idea to a lot of people, but you're young, you'll figure it out!
 
Girl, you're 13! Although I was dating when I was 13, it's nothing to get too serious about. Long distance relationship can work out, it's easier if one or both of you can drive though. I would suggest for right now being really good friends. Talk on the phone and on the internet, keep the relationship going, but don't commit yourself to it. There are a million fish in the sea and at your age you don't need to find the "right guy" you have your whole life ahead of you. And if it's meant to be, when you two get older and able to see each other more, maybe it will evolve into a relationship, 2 hours isn't that far apart, but it's far enough. Focus on school first and not boys, as dorky as that may sound it's your best bet right now. A boyfriend just to have one seems like a good idea to a lot of people, but you're young, you'll figure it out!
 
The way only way you can REALLY solve this, is to look into your heart. Is he worth trying a long distance relationship with? Is it worth it? Or is it easier to just move on? It's a question you need you look inside YOURSELF for, not somebody else.
 
The way only way you can REALLY solve this, is to look into your heart. Is he worth trying a long distance relationship with? Is it worth it? Or is it easier to just move on? It's a question you need you look inside YOURSELF for, not somebody else.
 
The way only way you can REALLY solve this, is to look into your heart. Is he worth trying a long distance relationship with? Is it worth it? Or is it easier to just move on? It's a question you need you look inside YOURSELF for, not somebody else.
 
The way only way you can REALLY solve this, is to look into your heart. Is he worth trying a long distance relationship with? Is it worth it? Or is it easier to just move on? It's a question you need you look inside YOURSELF for, not somebody else.
 
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