daydreambeliever21
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I met this guy six years ago when I was in high school. We met online, he is five years older than me, and we live on opposites side of the planet. But I love him more than anything, and loves me too. We've been on off throughout the six years. when we were together it was amazing but we were always afraid of hurting so we broke up - which hurt even more. Anyway after being together then not being together, and talking and stop talking we finally decided to be together again and to finally meet. This part was never easy because its hard for him to get a visa to come here and i never had the resources (or i was too young) to go to him. But we got really serious and he was going to come here - but again his visa didn't go through so we made more plans to meet each other and still each one fell through and it was going to be two years before we could potentially meet. This is hard on us as neither of us can wait that long. So he told me that he could send me a ticket for whenever i would be able to come to him. but the problem is, i still live with my parents, and still have to answer to them somewhat. and they don't know about him. because we met online i know what their reactions would be and i don't want to be kicked out of the house as my bf doesn't want me to live with him right now.- just because of the cultural differences he doesn't think i'd be able to live there comfortably. so i've been cautious about who i tell and all. and he doesn't like this. he wants me to tell everyone everything about us but his family doesn't know about me either. and because of this because i can't tell my family yet and that means it'd be harder to go to him without some sort of explanation to them he doesnt want to be my bf until i can tell them.
and well basically i was wondering if you all think our relationship is salvagable.
this is just the most recent fight. we fight all the time. and its hard because we love each other so much and we plan our future together all the time right down to what our house will be like and how many children and what names we like. we havent met in all these six years but recently we've been getting closer in other ways. we call and talk everyday (for about 8hours a day) and we've both have webcams so we also see each other. but we always fight. we dont want to we dont want to hurt each other but there is always something wrong that comes up even if its nothing.
i love him and i want to be with him more than anything
but based on this all do you think we can make it work until we meet and all?
and well basically i was wondering if you all think our relationship is salvagable.
this is just the most recent fight. we fight all the time. and its hard because we love each other so much and we plan our future together all the time right down to what our house will be like and how many children and what names we like. we havent met in all these six years but recently we've been getting closer in other ways. we call and talk everyday (for about 8hours a day) and we've both have webcams so we also see each other. but we always fight. we dont want to we dont want to hurt each other but there is always something wrong that comes up even if its nothing.
i love him and i want to be with him more than anything
but based on this all do you think we can make it work until we meet and all?