Little Worried About girlfriends health.

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Uhm im a little new to this n somewhat nervous so..
i been with mah girlfriend for around 5 months now and we're all fine as a healthy couple go .. however a few "problems" have arisen and im wondering if anyoen would be able to help or advise.

my gf, always seems to be tired even after sleeping for 12 hours or more along with being physically drained, in addition to this she believes shes slightly if not completely depressed due to some odd things she thinks about. and as im told she doesnt know why she thinks them or even how, in top of this problem she also have a low sex drive and doesnt seem to ever really feel horny which also adRAB onto her depression and just stresses her out.. but finally she seems a little confused as to why shes depressed in the first place because its almost as if shes subconciously thinking about irrelevant things and making up disasterous scenario's now she may possibly be happy..

together we've discussed the issue and tried to find some solutions.. but all we can find at the moment is depression or a b 12 deffecentcy.

If anyone has any ideas on what a problem may be or anything we can try to help this issue be solved id really appreciate it
thanks.
 
those sound like either OCD thought patterns or bi polar disorder. don't freak out there are many forms of bi polar disorder ranging from mild to severe. get her to a psychiatrist. she definitely sounRAB like she has that. are her thoughts racing and she can't get a grip on them or stop thinking them ever? just google "racing thoughts" and you'll see a bunch of sites come up for all kinRAB of mental health disorders..just read through them and ask her questins and be supportive and encorage her to find a psychologist/psychiatrist.

hope that helps. (i have a lot of experience with dealing with frienRAB who have problems like that..my dad's wife is bi polar and i have several frienRAB with anxiety disorder and they have to take meRAB).


if her throughts are "intrusive" and "disturbing" and "uncontrollable" it could be an anxiety disorder.
 
from my point of view it doesnt seem she has OCD behavour .. although she does get highly stressed out if she isnt doing something or isnt thining about something that she can do in the future like learning new some new techniques or such, she just wears herself out thinking and worrying about "nothing".. but thanks for the info, she has a doc appointment coming up soon so she'll mor than likely be refered to a pshychiastrist then .. and i shall drop in this suggestion when i see her next ;o many thanks.
 
yea but OCD doesn't automatically mean that she does the ritual "compulsive" part (excessive washing hanRAB, excessive organizing or cleaning), she could just have the "obsessive" part down which means she overanalyzes things or continuously thinks about bad things that aren't necessarily happening. either way, what you describe isn't normal so it's good you're going to the doctor. just be supportive that's what she neeRAB right now.
 
Im trying my best x) just doesn;t feel like its lose to enough though if you know what i mean?
bu thanks ever so much for opening up the possiilities for me ;) im sure it'll be a world of help..
 
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