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rachel_luvs_you13
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is there alything that i can do that will turn my boyfriend on more or like anything ic an do, cuz im not gnna know what im doinng, but yu guys kno wat i meannn..
like im a virgin and when i lose my virginity i want the sex to be good, but idk how/?
Hello Rachel,
Wow, tough question. First thing is you want to be sure you are ready to take that step, because, yeah, it is a big deal. But other than that, the only real advice I can give you is to not worry too much about it. I mean, the first time you rode a bike, did you do it perfect or did you fall off? It's gonna be the same with sex, nobody gets it perfect on the first try. Talk to your boyfriend, and find out what he likes or doesn't like. Then the two of you learn together. That's a lot of what makes it fun
Wow, tough question. First thing is you want to be sure you are ready to take that step, because, yeah, it is a big deal. But other than that, the only real advice I can give you is to not worry too much about it. I mean, the first time you rode a bike, did you do it perfect or did you fall off? It's gonna be the same with sex, nobody gets it perfect on the first try. Talk to your boyfriend, and find out what he likes or doesn't like. Then the two of you learn together. That's a lot of what makes it fun
Cloudmuffin
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Learn how to spell first, that should attract an intelligent human being. Sex will never be amazing the first time, just accept it. Theres plenty of time to practice. Faking expertise will only make it laughable.
just put on something sexy, that will show off the belly most of the chest and short shorts, something that really gets me in the mood is when my boyfriend tickles me and then im all over him and he's all over me, where you do it is very important be sure it's soft and fun so every time you walk by that place you will have a good feeling and not an uncomfortable one also be calm the calmer you are the more fun it will be i know it will be hard to stay calm when hes climbing all over you and tickling you and kissing you but, don't think! just do it
I don't mean to ruin your dreams of having amazing sex your first time, but, because you don't have experience it may not be what you're hoping. When I lost my virginity (which was about 4 years ago) it happened unexpectedly. We fumbled over each other a bit but laughed it off, realizing we were both taking things to seriously. He had more experience then I did so he took over. In the end, we just did what came natural and what we were comfortable with.
Not sure if you're ok with this idea, but... watching porn can give you some great ideas! And I don't mean on how to be super dirty and like a porn star, just ideas in general on what to do.
Hope that helps!
Not sure if you're ok with this idea, but... watching porn can give you some great ideas! And I don't mean on how to be super dirty and like a porn star, just ideas in general on what to do.
Hope that helps!