Its been more than a year since I left university. I have no friends near me. Nothing has improved for months and I am really not happy with how my life is going. I feel like this part of my life is a write off.
I still see university friends but its like a military operation planning our meetups as we are all so far away from each other. I just want friends I can meet up with without having to plan months in advance. I'm so lonely right now and I don't know how to deal with it.
I'm so lonely. Most nights I just stay in with my parents. Sometimes I go to a local group, class or event to try and meet people but they usually follow the same pattern, get there, realise everyone there is at least 10 years older than me, wait a bit to see if any people from my age group turn up, stay a bit longer out of politeness, make excuses and leave.
I know there are youth groups but they are all for teenagers. Its like I'm too young for one group and too old for the other. I try to be friendly but I don't fit in or get any sort of enjoyment which makes me think whats the point?
I wish I could move but I am stuck here due to lack of money and the fact that I can only get a job where I live. I did try applying for jobs where I would have to move but only got replies from local jobs.
I still see university friends but its like a military operation planning our meetups as we are all so far away from each other. I just want friends I can meet up with without having to plan months in advance. I'm so lonely right now and I don't know how to deal with it.
I'm so lonely. Most nights I just stay in with my parents. Sometimes I go to a local group, class or event to try and meet people but they usually follow the same pattern, get there, realise everyone there is at least 10 years older than me, wait a bit to see if any people from my age group turn up, stay a bit longer out of politeness, make excuses and leave.
I know there are youth groups but they are all for teenagers. Its like I'm too young for one group and too old for the other. I try to be friendly but I don't fit in or get any sort of enjoyment which makes me think whats the point?
I wish I could move but I am stuck here due to lack of money and the fact that I can only get a job where I live. I did try applying for jobs where I would have to move but only got replies from local jobs.