My husband is very much into the swinging lifestyle. I tried it but it isn't for me. He seems to think this will benefit us still so he sets me up on the internet to meet men and he gives them explicit instructions on what they are to do to me. I have never met them. I have a security program on my computer that lets me see what he is typing to others. Do I leave with kids or do I stay. Counseling doesn't work, been there, done that. I would hate to be another stat for divorce. Suggestions or comments.