Lame last couple days

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Shadi Badi

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This week has been kinda lame, it's definitely been a mixed bag though.
Some of this belongs in Dearly Insignificant, but not all of it, so I put it here.

The Negatives (first because I feel like it):
  • I am totally fuckin broke
  • My ladyfriend is totally fuckin unappreciative of me (this is something I will be speaking to her about)... she treats it like a casual friendship with kissing, even though we have spoken and agreed that we are on a serious dating thing... She shows no effort and doesn't really do anything nice for me. Meanwhile I do my best to be the best partner I can be... I plan on talking to her in an "in-your-corner-even-if-this-isn't-what-you-want-to-hear" way.
  • I had a dream I called my dad and he didn't pick up, then got cut off while leaving him a voicemail. It's been so long since I've talked to him, and I really don't want to.
  • Work is going shittily
  • My car is gonna break down
  • One of my new co-workers is a pompous high school kid who talks way too fuckin much and he tries to say shit to me, it gets on my nerves... as if I didn't already have that at my first job
  • My ex tried to pull some facebook drama bullshit on me... My profile picture is a tightly cropped pic of me with a silly face at my high school graduation. She commented "I think I used to be in this photo." To be honest I don't remember, and I don't have the original, but it's not like I did it to be mean or anything. I made an extremely nice apology. So then I was curious about her profile picture, because she was dressed in fishnets and on another girl's lap, so I checked it out, and saw an earlier profile picture, where you can still see the corner of my mouth from where she cropped me out of it. I commented "LOL" and she hasn't said anything back.
  • I lost my voice and I sound like I'm becoming a man again
  • More bullshit than I care to remember

The above came together to make me SO FUCKING PISSED last night. I was out bowling with my ladyfriend and her friends, and we bet on the game because I figured I'd win and she would finally have to do something nice for me... but nope, she came back with a strike and a spare the last two frames, so it's just me making yet another gesture for her. Not to mention she acted like a 14 year old all night and didn't show me one shred of affection in front of her friends. So then we met up with my friends, and we were going to play pool (which was what we were originally supposed to do in the first place) and by that time she had to go home. So I was pissed about that, and all the other shit, and I could tell I was about to snap and do something stupid, so I went home and went to sleep.

The positives:
  • I got a couple free bowls of weed the other day
  • I just found out that a girl that was a mondo slut in high school, and has gotten hotter, and is single, lives about 40 minutes from me and wants to get drunk w/ me
  • I got my super cool new shirt in the mail
  • That's all I can think of that's good lately

Go ahead and shower me with gifts, sympathy, and naked pics (last offer for girls only). :sad:
 
Really, I can think of a lot more positives about you than you listed, but I guess you were just talking about the last few days. If you want, I'll go crotch punch your girlfriend for you so she will appreciate you more.
 
As for the lady problems, may I suggest a hot, steaming helping of...

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Also applies to your coworker and ex.
 
I dunno. I'm not showering her with gifts and favors or anything, I just make sure that when I do something for her I make it special.

But I am going to break it off with her, which sucks because I've never felt a girl's personality was as "right" for me as hers is - but it's pretty clear she's the type who would leave me as soon as something "better" came along. I've come to find out that she's schemed on two of my friends (first time was before we were exclusive, so I tried to forget about it) and when we're in group settings she acts like a completely different person, a person that I am not very attracted to and who is very clearly not attracted to me. Plus her total unappreciativeness.

So, yeah. Unless she has some REALLY good shit to tell me in response to my worries, I'm airing it out and breaking it off next time I see her.

Edit: Aaand, we're no longer friends anymore. I hope I can get my video games back.
 
seriously
if she doesn't appreciate you, because that is what it looks like, fuck it.

from a girls opinion: you're being too nice.

look at it this way: theres wayyy hotter single girls waiting for a guy like you to come along, willing to show affection back.

+free weeds always good.

:D
 
I got my video games back, stopped stressing her, and the other girl came out. My year and a half streak is over, for those of you who know what I'm talking about :cool:
 
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