Ladies please help! (Decreased sex drive?!)?

[Jimmy B]

Okay ladies, my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and 5 months now and both in our 20's. Recently, she started the birth control pill and it totally killed her sex drive. We only really have sex like one day a week now. Is this healthy? What can we do to fix this? Plleasseee help! She's even having trouble achieving full orgasms.

 

[getthehelp]

She might want to talk to her doctor about switching to another form of Pill. I did after a couple of months and now 4 years later I am still on the 2nd type of pill with no side effects. Its just trying to find the pill that works best with your body. There are a lot of different ones out there.

 

[jessicaaaaa, xoox]

I noticed the exact same thing happened to me, and i really dont know what chagned it. i was with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and by the end i didnt really want to have sex, it was more me just doing it to make him happy. This was after a year or more of taking b.c though. I dont remember when I got it back, but I compeltely did and it came back more than ever. I'd say just be patient, or try new things, or talk to her about it. I had a change of relationship, and Ive been with my new boyfriend for over a year and I havent had those same problems again. All i'd say is be patient, becuase shes probably just as annoyed with it as you are, and remember that there are alot more important things to a 2 and a half year relationship than sex. you bugging her to have sex when shes rly not up to it, or enjoying it as much anymore might start more problems than just letting her have her time and being patient. good luck though