Marie Wood
New member
Hi everyone, i'm just wondering why me and my girlfriend are not having as much sex as i'd like we are in our early 20's, i've tried all sorts of things to get the ball rolling, we have only had sex 3 times, and all 3 of those times were in the first few weeks, but for the past 2 weeks i've had nothing, we have been other about a month, i've tried different thinks to see what works best, but nothing has worked, i've even got to the point where i have just straight out asked her, and that didnt work either, apart from this there is no problem in the relationship, we are always cuddled up on the sofa watching tv and kissing alot, or out together having a drink, but i dont know whats with the sex thing, its begining to frustrate me,
i dont really want to ask her why, cause i dont want to seem like im being pushy or getting angry about it,
The other night we had a few drinks and she told me she wanted sex, so we got back to mine, had some food and what ever, then when we got to bed she said she was tired (which i could understand cause we were both pretty drunk ect) but the next morning i still didnt get anything, i dont understand?
She will kiss and cuddle me all day, and i love this, but it would be nice to be able to do other things every so often, its not like im asking for it 24/7 but maybe once or twice a week would be nice, i dont know whats going on? help appreciated
P.s i also have thought that maybe its that time of the month, but she told me before when it was, so she would have told me again if it was that time again.
i dont really want to ask her why, cause i dont want to seem like im being pushy or getting angry about it,
The other night we had a few drinks and she told me she wanted sex, so we got back to mine, had some food and what ever, then when we got to bed she said she was tired (which i could understand cause we were both pretty drunk ect) but the next morning i still didnt get anything, i dont understand?
She will kiss and cuddle me all day, and i love this, but it would be nice to be able to do other things every so often, its not like im asking for it 24/7 but maybe once or twice a week would be nice, i dont know whats going on? help appreciated
P.s i also have thought that maybe its that time of the month, but she told me before when it was, so she would have told me again if it was that time again.