i am 19, my fiance Ivan is 20. he has a son named Connor, and Ivan's old girlfriend and Connor's mom left them and then got put into jail for two years when Connor was almost a month old, she has never come back. Connor is almost 3 years old now, and often refers to me as mom. i don't really care if he does, its not like he knows any better, hes only three. but now his mom is out of jail and wants back into his life after not being there for three years, Ivan doesn't want to let her be around him, but he knows that he kind of has to, but what i am i supposed to do, should i tell Connor to call her mom? or i really don't even know how to meet the lady, i have heard bad stories about her, and really i am kind of scared of her. i just really need advice on what to do, anything would be helpful, please give me serious answers.
i've been with Ivan for two years, and Connor knows i am not his real mom, but he still calls me mom.
i've been with Ivan for two years, and Connor knows i am not his real mom, but he still calls me mom.