Judging a mother for having three children with different fathers?

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Lorraine

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Ignore what ignorant people say. Nobody should judge especially when they never have been in a situation like this. She sounds like a good mom and also a good wife too. The traditional family has almost disappeared long ago and I know from experience that this type of family does not make them better then families who have been divorced or widowed. I have been married several times and have 2 children from diffferent marriages. Heard it all myself but I ignore close minded people. Celebrites have children with different fathers and are considered role models and heroes in society!? How does your boyfriend feel about his mom? Stay strong for his sake and ignore the insults!
 
Okay so my boyfriends mother almost has three children all from different fathers. My family and friends always say things like "well i suppose she went around the block a few times" or a sarky comment. My boyfriends dad died when he was only a year old and his mother only got back into a serious relationship when he was about 4/5 years old. She was in the relationship for 6 months and became accidentally pregnant but decided to keep the baby (his sister) Who still see's her dad a lot and stuff. But after 6 years she re-married and is now pregnant with a third child. I personally feel judging her, under these circumstances is unfair. What do you think?
He mainly worries about what i think, but he knows now that i feel she is very stronge and that there is nothing wrong with it. She was married to his dad for 2 years before having him, and they had dated ever since high school. When he died it set her back and then to have a failed relationship pushed her back more. She was been married to his step dad for a year and a half, after dating for 3 years and he says this is the happiest hes seen her for years. So having a child with the one you love and are married to, in my opinion is completely fine.
 
I completely agree and I am in your shoes, my fiancee has 3 kids with 3 different (including mine) He constantly gets ridiculed about it....by everyone, my family, his family .... it never stops. I keep trying to tell them, you have known this for many years, constantly bringing it up is not going to change the situation. They be little him and it's like he is there punching bag and they can't just live there own lives and let it be. People make mistakes, you learn from them... you get a couple amazing kids and you learn your lesson ... judging is wrong people should mind there own damn business.... good for you for not judging you seem like a great person!
 
I worked with a woman that had 7 children and all of them were fathered by different men who were fresh out of prison. And she would go to work and tell everyone, "I need a man!"
What do you think of that?
 
come on why you want to put Axe on your own feets .......

let me tell you something if your BF gona knows that you think about such rubbish then it will me more more more bad for both of you ..

who are you to judge her mom .. its GOD created her not you .. so how could you judge here charachter i don't think so you have any right's to judge her no body knows what could be the problems that she face in the life

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