Ive never had sex, and my partner wants us both to get tested... should i...

[Joshua L]

...spend my money and time on it? Ive never had sex, Ive received oral sex once before. Should I spend my money on it? She wants us to do this before we have sex. I don't blame her and I want to be safe too... We are taking as many precations as we can. We are using spermicidal condoms and she will be taking birth control. We fear pregnancy, not so much STD's because she has given me oral without the use of a condom. If she gave me oral sex, would she have already caught anything i might possibly have had after getting oral and vice versa? I really dont think we have anything we both are virgins. Thanks