Its all in you. You have to make the effort to define yourself, to show others what you can do. Get a job, work hard, advance! Have confidence! When others start to put you down, correct them immediantly! Tell them that they're wrong, and then do something to back it up. Finally, when you have achieved goals and gained security, go away. Go away from all those people who made the old you. And find the people who just love YOU.
P.S. a makeover really helps boost confidence!
