I've been talking to a girl for about 3 weeks and its her birthday tomorrow.

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Are flowers appropriate? I met a girl while i was scoping out a new place to live in a different city a few weeks ago. I live 7 hours away right now, but theres a good chance i might be moving to her town, (not because of her, the move is mostly based on school, friends, etc). After i left, we continued talking to eachother everyday and I came back to see her after being gone for 2 weeks. She wants to take things slow and I'm cool with that. So when I came back to see her, thats all this trip was about, seeing her. We had a blast for the first 2 days, but on the third, she was acting a lot more distant and mentioned that she didnt want me to move out here for her. Before i met her, i was kinda unsure about the move, but after spending time with her, it just makes the move seem that much more right. I understand it puts a lot of pressure on her if I made this move about her, so I'm weighing my options without including her and i'm still considering the move, with or without her. Anyways, after our talk today, she seems like shes being really cautious about doing anything with me. She says she likes me but she just wanted space tonight, even though i did drive 7 hours to see her, spent money on a hotel, and bought her food and drinks all weekend. Anyways. It's her birthday tomorrow and i'm not going to be able to see her because i'm driving back home. Should i send flowers to her house? Any ideas of what to put in the card? Or should i just save my money and give her space like she wants?