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Well, a couple things are kinda keepin me down lately, like, the fact that all my friends I've met over here(since i moved) most of them fuck me over in one way or another. Another thing, even though its coming up to christmas and my b-day, I could frankly not give a flying fuck, I'd rather just sit here by myself, but hey, thats my own problem, I guess.
Another major problem in my mood swings, would be my parents, they just piss me off in too many ways. When I'm trying to concentrate they insist on bugging me while I'm trying do something, they make annoying sounds for atleast 30 minutes straight. It really gets on my nerves, and asking them to stop, won't help. All they say is "you love when i piss you off." yeah fucking right man. :thumbsup: If only you knew how pissed off you got me, you would stop.
Another major problem I'm having, and I know that some people have this same problem, but, getting a girlfriend is almost next to impossible for me, "oh, your cute, you shouldn't have a trouble getting a girlfriend." Well, if you were in my position, you would realize that its alot harder than it looks.
Sure, I've tried to get a girlfriend for a couple years, hell, its been over 7+ years since I had a girlfriend. I've actually thought just to give up on it, its not like anything is ever going to happen to me that will impact my life.
 
Forget your parents and your so called friends...if your friends fuck you over oh well...You need to find new ones. Another thing I see is you are just doubting yourself too much. Stop being depressed all the time and look on the bright side I am your friend...I told you if I were there with you and if I was single I would love to go out with you as a g/f and such. You have a great personality, don't let noone tell you other wise. Even if I was not single and I was where you are...I would be you best friend and I would never fuck you over.
 
To tell you the truth I'm kind of in the same spot but it's more getting into bad relationships a lot for me. I think cuddles advice is what I'd tell you to do too. My parents annoy the shit out of me, and my friends can be the biggest douche bags ever, I feel it calms me down to talk with people that aren't total jackoffs, doesn't have to be about what problems you have, it can be, but it could be about anything, talking about something will get your mind off it and make you concentrate more.
 
Yeah its kinda hard to concentrate when they're close by and they won't shut the fuck up. I've put up with it for over 5+ years, its really getting to be a problem with me..
 
do all the depressed people in the world flock to this forum?

first of all.. staying home and being by yourself will just make you more depressed!

second why do you need a g/f so badly? just let things happen! people are always in such a rush to have a significant other. however, confidence attracts people. maybe if you show a little you will be able to find somebody.

parents are meant to piss you off.. thats why they gave birth to us. learn to deal with it!
 
Like, going to the mall will make it all better.


Why do I need a girlfriend? All my friends have girlfriends, and I'm the only without one. And I haven't had one in over 7 years, it gets kinda lonely.


It will be heaven when I move out.
 
You need to realize the power and greatness inside of you. You don't need a girlfriend to signifey something in your life. Sure we all want someone to understand us and be there for us. But wanting and needing one... is diffrent then love. Love just Happens.

You need to look at the postive things and its tuff when freinds let ya down and leave ya. I know, but there is a power and magic inside of yourself. Look in you will find it. Once you find that tiny bit of magic, everything falls in place

Eh, maybe you will smile a bit
 
actually.. yeah! going out and doing things makes a person feel better. also exercise does, possibly try that?



i hear yah.. i do! im just saying dont rush things. i know this maybe a lame idea but have you tried online dating? my mom did it and met a really fabulous guy.



lol i thought the same thing when i first moved out!
 
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