will be in our art class for figure drawing next week today, and I am in that class with my ex boyfriend who I just broke up with.
my question is this...
He asked if he could bring a camera or video camera to get the model on camera!!!!!!
I was shocked that he asked this question, because I had already told him the answer would be no, for the simple reason of ethics, and a few people spoke up and made that very clear. Its an art class at college, not a low class stripper bar!
He got a few weird looks from the classmates.
I realized tonight that one reason I broke up with him is his constant "BIG FISH" stories about other women...he has been bragging to everyone who will listen that we would have a nude model.
So I broke up and moved out just last week, but realized tonight that I feel insecure around him, because he acts in ways, that make me feel like he cheats on me emotionally and wants me to feel insecure by making disrespectful comments about other women.
I REALLY WANT TO HEAR FROM WOMEN< PLEASE NO SMART ASS ANSWERS.
Would you tolerate a man, who you know, oggles at other women all the time, even in front of you???? Then braggs about these women to others, even his mom, in front of me. I do not feel insecure about the other women, I feel insecure about his commitment to me, which has always made me feel like I have to WORK really hard to be any good for him...which is a big reason why I left and for good.
NOTE: This is not the only reason we broke up. He has got a drinking problem and is very passive aggressive, not to mention his gaslighting of me all the time!!!
Right Jaded! There is nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful person. This feels like total disregard and disrespect for me and the other women. It was embarressing in class because everyone knows that we "were" a couple (We did not announce the breakup in class.) Some of the classmates and the teacher who is a young women herself were kind of appaulled at the question.
Just makes me realize I really made the right decision in leaving him. I see handsome men all the time, but I do not oggle, or bragg about them to EVERYONE. I broke up with him mainly for other reasons, but this goes to show me how shallow he really is.
my question is this...
He asked if he could bring a camera or video camera to get the model on camera!!!!!!
I was shocked that he asked this question, because I had already told him the answer would be no, for the simple reason of ethics, and a few people spoke up and made that very clear. Its an art class at college, not a low class stripper bar!
He got a few weird looks from the classmates.
I realized tonight that one reason I broke up with him is his constant "BIG FISH" stories about other women...he has been bragging to everyone who will listen that we would have a nude model.
So I broke up and moved out just last week, but realized tonight that I feel insecure around him, because he acts in ways, that make me feel like he cheats on me emotionally and wants me to feel insecure by making disrespectful comments about other women.
I REALLY WANT TO HEAR FROM WOMEN< PLEASE NO SMART ASS ANSWERS.
Would you tolerate a man, who you know, oggles at other women all the time, even in front of you???? Then braggs about these women to others, even his mom, in front of me. I do not feel insecure about the other women, I feel insecure about his commitment to me, which has always made me feel like I have to WORK really hard to be any good for him...which is a big reason why I left and for good.
NOTE: This is not the only reason we broke up. He has got a drinking problem and is very passive aggressive, not to mention his gaslighting of me all the time!!!
Right Jaded! There is nothing wrong with admiring a beautiful person. This feels like total disregard and disrespect for me and the other women. It was embarressing in class because everyone knows that we "were" a couple (We did not announce the breakup in class.) Some of the classmates and the teacher who is a young women herself were kind of appaulled at the question.
Just makes me realize I really made the right decision in leaving him. I see handsome men all the time, but I do not oggle, or bragg about them to EVERYONE. I broke up with him mainly for other reasons, but this goes to show me how shallow he really is.