I like the guy and he likes me( I would think). We actually dated before and never had sex. He likes/has had sex a lot...really a lot. I know a lot of guys do(no offense..). So we recently started to hang out again. As most guys also do, he doesn't like having those "serious" conversations. He keeps pushing the idea of me and him having sex and I keep telling him pretty much "no" or gave some reasons. Finally I asked why he wants to have sex with me so bad? He said he wants to feel close...
So (my thought) Maybe since he's bad at being that "sweet" relationship guy/expressing his emotions in a more sweet/loving way...would it make sense that sex actually does make him feel closer to me? Like having a guy tell me he misses me,was thinking about me, buys me something,asks me out,makes me feel like he wants to be around me,tells me he loves me stuff like that would make ME feel closer. So can sex make him really feel closer or is this just some BS just to get in my pants?
Your thoughts below ? Thankies!
So (my thought) Maybe since he's bad at being that "sweet" relationship guy/expressing his emotions in a more sweet/loving way...would it make sense that sex actually does make him feel closer to me? Like having a guy tell me he misses me,was thinking about me, buys me something,asks me out,makes me feel like he wants to be around me,tells me he loves me stuff like that would make ME feel closer. So can sex make him really feel closer or is this just some BS just to get in my pants?
Your thoughts below ? Thankies!