Isit rude to have sex when the baby is in the same room?

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this isn't me, but me and my friend were discussing this, she gave birth one month ago and the baby sleeps in the same room in a cradle, and she was telling me that she has sex in the same room with her husband.. is that weird? or is that normal? i know the baby wouldnt know or understand.
 
When I first glanced at the question, i thought no its not bad. But I thought about it and I think its wrong, you wouldnt do it when a childs in the room, so why should you if a babys in the room?
 
I don't see a problem with it.

The baby's a month old. It's not going to understand, it's not going to remember, it's not going to be traumatised. It'll probably sleep through it.

In a few months time, the baby will be moved to its own room anyway, and then it won't be an issue.
 
for thousands of years we have created the next generation with the "baby in the room". a huge majority of the people who have lived on this planet did it in one room dwellings. it aint weird. just modern discomfort.
 
If you think thats bad, there was a documentary about styles of parenting on the TV last year I think. The parents were so attached to the baby that it slept in their bed, from a newborn! and they had sex with it there! to me, that is wrong and disturbing as surely the child would be injured. However, with your friend I think its okay as long as the baby isn't old enough to realise whats happening. However, when the childs a few months older and more aware of its surrounding, either the child should move to another room or the parents should have sex in the day or something.
 
I don't think a month old baby would be too traumatised at being in the same room that hs parents are having sex!!
 
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