Is this weird or normal?

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Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to 'fancy' girls but grow out of it! I don't fancy girls but i don't seem to fancy boys either! All the girls in my class are like 'ohhh, hes hot' and i try and think that too but i don't feel it! But its not like i think girls are hot! Weird or normal?
 
Normal. I had a crush on Keifer Sutherland when I was 10, then starting noticing boys in school etc. came later, about age 14. I got my period at age 9 even, but noticing cute boys came MUCH later.

It could be you are not at the noticeing boys stage, or you may not like the same type of boys. I now love HUGE muscular men. Like the kinds that take steriods. I never liked the boys the other girls dreamed over (which was New Kids on the Block btw). I did like Axel Rose when they liked New Kids, when I was 12.

You may not start to notice boys until a couple years after you start your period. Or it could be even later than that. Doesn't matter, you won't be able to get married etc. until age 18 so what is the rush?
 
it is normal :] your just not feeling into anyone at the moment, maybe soon you will. and finding other girls attractive is normal but if your getting real serious feelings then it could mean something
 
You may just not have come into your own yet. Some people are just late bloomers when it comes to their hormones and being attracted to the opposite or same sex, whatever their sexual preference comes to be. Some people are asexual, where they are not attracted to men or women; they have no sex drive what so ever. Don't be too worried. Talk to your family doctor about this, and see what he says. I'm sure you are fine.
 
ur just not ready to have those kind of feelings it wil lcome in time dont worrie
 
You are wants normal for you - feelings will come - it often has to do with whether you have started your periods - as soon as they start other hormones kick in - I would guess that most of your friends are pretending too. Don't stress enjoy your teenage years they don't last that long.
 
i think its normal. maybe that boy isnt attractive to you. its normal to think other girls are attractive but if you have feelings for them thats different. dont worry, youll probably figure it out soon.
 
i think its normal. maybe that boy isnt attractive to you. its normal to think other girls are attractive but if you have feelings for them thats different. dont worry, youll probably figure it out soon.
 
Both are normal.. saying that implies like being a lesbian is abnormal and it's not.. But i know what you mean.. I felt the same when i was your age and i'm pretty straight : ) lol
 
You are just curious. it is not a problem is you fancy them. It's not like your think they are hot or anything. Maybe, I don't know if I'm right, but maybe the reason why you don't like the guys or the girls at your school is because they act stupid or mean. Maybe you'll find that right person guy or girl and you'll know which sex you like. It happened to me when I was in 4th grade and I liked girls ever since. Maybe it will happen for you. Just hope for the best.
 
It is normal for any girl to think other girls are attractive, but its when there are actual feelings that it means something else. And maybe that guy isn't attractive to you. Maybe you see things differently.
 
You will get there....
It just means you don't see boys that way yet.. But when you do it will be all you think about!
Consider yourself lucky that you have more brain power to think about more important things at the moment!
 
I say its perfectly normal. You are young you will discover who you are soon enough. Don't try to rush things or force yourself to be something you aren't
 
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