Is this to much or to little on "before my first time having sex" list?

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my boyfriend is 19 and so am I. we have been dating for 11 months now. we are both virgins

we planning to have sex sometime in the summer.

On my "before we have sex for the first time" list

For Me: go to gynecologist, get std checked, and get on a birth control best for me.

For him: get a genital exam (<--- what is that called for guys) an std check and make sure he has condoms.


is there anything I should add?

am i being to anal about it?

what else do you want to say

NOTE: i doing the std check because some std can be passed with kissing and touching with no sex ( yes virgins can pass some stds)
 
i say make sure he is a virgin first and if u gonna get checked go together and get the results together!
 
The STDS that can be passed threw touching and kissing would be visible sores but always good to be checked none the less. Least you 2 talked about having sex instead of jumping in to it. For you try and be on the pill at least a week before you have sex. for him he will complain the condom gives less feeling and yes it does make it a little less pleasurable for him but for his first time your lucky if you 2 will go more then 5 min. as for being anal about it no you can never be to safe about it these days because you never know.
 
As far as I know the only STD that can be passed by kissing is herpes/cold sores but if that was the case you would have noticed by now. So I think you are going a little overboard with the whole STD check.

Birth control and condoms are a good thing. You have to be on birth control for 30 days before it actually works to prevent pregnancy. Also stay clear of antibiotics and if you do take antibiotics make sure to ask your doctor if it will effect your birth control. Some over the counter meds can do the same so again ask your doctor. But if I were you I would use the IUD. It works for 5 years and you don't have to worry about taking something every day or going in for a shot every 3 months.

But you seem to be making this a very "matter of fact" thing. Almost like a procedure. You need to be spontaneous about this or it will not go right. So get yourself on some birth control (IUD) is a very good form. Relax and let this happens when it happens, or you are going to be disappointed.
 
I would say your going in the right direction. Sex is a very serious thing that shouldn't be taken lightly. You can never be too safe these days.
Oh and add K&Y 2-in-1 warming oil to the list. Amazing stuff let me tell you.
Good Luck!!!
 
its called a physical, and maybe, but no its just being safe, I personally think that thats a good thing, Though i liked my first time Spontanious and out of the blue
 
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