countrygirl
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I am in my later 20's and my fiance is in his mid 30's. We have been together almost 10 years and have no kids. We rent an apartment together, we both have good jobs, but we have always argued as much as we get along. The problem is, well there are alot of problems. He is constantly in debt, and always ignores me and plays his video game from the minute he gets home from work until 10:30 or 11:00 pm ,so then I just do my own thing, but then turns it around on me and acts like I'm the one that's ignoring him when I'm not. I always want to talk to him about our future or make plans and talk about bills, and where to buy land and build a house but he mostly puts it off. When we're around his friends, he acts like I'm not there, he's constantly playing mind games with me, and making everything seem like it's my fault, or I'm the one not contributing. Not to mention always gawking at other women, we are hardly intimate but maybe once every week or so. I don't know what to do anymore.