is this ok when you first meet someone?

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okay so i'm in college, and today on campus i met this guy...well actually he talked to me ..we spoke for about an hour..and then i had to go so i left..ok so tonight he asked me out to a movie..if i say yes will that make me look bad??@ Alssya M....seriously?????..............................thanx for all of the advice people!!!:)
 
No, it will let him know that you're interested in getting to know him better. So go if you are really interested in getting to know him better. The only thing that would make you look bad is if you did something like ask him to come home and hook up with you after knowing him for an hour. A movie is hardly a hookup.
 
Why would it make you look bad? You'll only look bad if you bed him that night. Show him you have propriety and have your self respect, if he gets overly aggressive with the physical contact, stop him. Don't go to his dorm room, don't take him to yours. Don't put yourself in a situation where you are alone with him with no way out. You don't know this guy, so treat him like such.He may have genuine interest in you or he may be looking to score for the night. Its up to you as to what the rest of the guys on campus will know you to be right? Be attentive, if you feel like he's going to get too pushy with you for sexual activity, leave.Oh and -- make sure you meet him at the theater so in case you have to leave, you can.
 
NO! Jeez.. he didn't ask if you wanted to screw.You are WAY over thinking this... this is how the "game playing" starts... if you want to go to a movie with him GO. If you do go... Have fun.. you're young.. enjoy yourself and don't make things bigger than they are.
 
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