my b/f and i have been twice to a swingers club for me it was a curiousity thing and i wanted to experience a woman . my 1st time i was upset and was a mixed emotion thing we have since been again and my partner wanted to another woman to join i felt uncomfortable with it and didnt agree he just touched and kissed her us I dont think i can detach my emotions and feel alittle uneasy with it. he said that he was only doing the same things as i was doing to the woman. and when we talked on the way back he said that it was fantasy and not real .. im i being selfish as i did do things with the girl and i didnt want him to just sit there.