This is a very long story but I will try to make it short. I have a cousin whom I shall call D. Up until recently he has been almost like my brother. It's true that we don't talk about too many serious stuff but we have a fairly good relationship. He is handsome, charming, gentlemanly and smart.
Then this girl came along...She is not pretty or nice. I am not making prejudiced remarks. If she where not pretty but nice i would like her. But she is anything but. When he first went out with her, everything was fine. My cousins (D's sisters) loved her. But then she began to show her true colors. For instance, once he mentioned the possibility of breaking up she threatened to kill herself.
Then when I didn't invite to a party I threw, she swallowed a bunch of pills and had to spend three days getting her stomach pumped. Then lied about it. Later, she began to disobey the rules and regulations whenever she visited my Aunt's house.
Now, after seeing that she can't have her way, she is making life miserable for my other cousins. She turns people against them and makes her parent call my Aunt to yell at her if D's sister put a status that she THINKS might be talking bad about her.
Turns out, now D has changed too. At first he confessed to someone that he really wanted to break up with this girl but ghe was scared because her parents threatened to do something. Now he just hate all of his family because they hate her. All he does is curse and scream and act like a jerk. Then when he sees her -poof! he turns to his old self.
Lots of people have tried to talk him out of being with. Especially since she wants to get married. But he gets mad at all of them. So no I am wondering, should i talk to him? I have never really seen all that she has done but she was really mean to me the other day. She completely ignored me when i extended my hand to greet her. But it's no big deal. I didn't care anyways.
No she is pressuring for marriage so I must ask... "Should I risk him being angry at me and talk to him?"
Then this girl came along...She is not pretty or nice. I am not making prejudiced remarks. If she where not pretty but nice i would like her. But she is anything but. When he first went out with her, everything was fine. My cousins (D's sisters) loved her. But then she began to show her true colors. For instance, once he mentioned the possibility of breaking up she threatened to kill herself.
Then when I didn't invite to a party I threw, she swallowed a bunch of pills and had to spend three days getting her stomach pumped. Then lied about it. Later, she began to disobey the rules and regulations whenever she visited my Aunt's house.
Now, after seeing that she can't have her way, she is making life miserable for my other cousins. She turns people against them and makes her parent call my Aunt to yell at her if D's sister put a status that she THINKS might be talking bad about her.
Turns out, now D has changed too. At first he confessed to someone that he really wanted to break up with this girl but ghe was scared because her parents threatened to do something. Now he just hate all of his family because they hate her. All he does is curse and scream and act like a jerk. Then when he sees her -poof! he turns to his old self.
Lots of people have tried to talk him out of being with. Especially since she wants to get married. But he gets mad at all of them. So no I am wondering, should i talk to him? I have never really seen all that she has done but she was really mean to me the other day. She completely ignored me when i extended my hand to greet her. But it's no big deal. I didn't care anyways.
No she is pressuring for marriage so I must ask... "Should I risk him being angry at me and talk to him?"