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Simply Irresistable
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He’s “conservative” type of guy. He’s handsome but doesn’t think so and many girls have hit on him. He gets scared easily fr that kind of attention. He’s been in long term relationships the past ten yrs. I’m a good girl; i’m not like other girls. - not easy, dramatic, clingy, attached or expecting anything. I like to be silly but I know when I need to be serious. I’m still easygoing but real. We’ve been “in contact” for a bit over a month. We’re on a “mutual understanding” and have much in common. We’re both private people.
He’s been the perfect gentleman. I get a “g’morning” txt everyday and we txt all day everyday. He’ll call me a couple times too. He likes to joke around alot - it’s his personality and also his guard/defense mechanism. He’s very honest, blunt, and direct to the point and sometimes corny. He let me known fr. the beg, about EVERYTHING. VERY HONEST even if it was ugly and we’re both on the same page.
The more i get to know him, he’s been “comfortable” and actin like a fool. Signs show he still is interested…he’ll notice little things about me, always flirting, supportive of what’s goin on w. me…we went out TWICE in 1 week…but he’s been CONFUSING me. He’s a predictable gentleman but is tryin to be “opposite” thinkin it will make me more intersted. He’s so caught up on what girls have told him in the past so he “warns me about it” “from what girls have said, good or bad
ANYWAY, i was FREAKED OUT fr that night and my defense mechanism was to be scared and be distant.He txtd me the next morning and i was bein confused/extra guarded so i gave him one word answrs. He was his normal self and i think he noticed me being distant so he stopped texting me. Looking back, he started acting weird WHEN I STARTED acting weird. I FINALLY talked to him/apologized and we cleared things out and asked if he was hinting/trying to scare me away and he said “no.” He was still flirty and still managed to be a little boy wanting to confuse me and admitting he had “game’. There was no contact for 3 full days. Finally he txtd hi and asked how i was. He said he was “busy w. work, working out, and planning trips and said he was tired”. I don’t get it…in the beg, he did all that stuff while texting me. He did change and wasn’t as childish…still joked/flirted a bit but kept it clean.
when i talked to him (same nite i apologized), i told him i never got him bc he was always joking…which isn’t a bad thing but i couldn’t tell if he was being serious or sarcastic…NOW he doesn’t joke as much and he’s serious and polite…? He doesn’t initiate anything anymore…though if I initiate, he’ll respond back… I’m a very old fashioned girl when it comes to love…I don’t play hard to get, I simply am but in this situation, I don’t know whether to step back or initiate more…. DO YOU THINK HE’S STILL INTERESTED? WHAT DO I DO? BE HARD TO GET OR TXT HIM?
He’s been the perfect gentleman. I get a “g’morning” txt everyday and we txt all day everyday. He’ll call me a couple times too. He likes to joke around alot - it’s his personality and also his guard/defense mechanism. He’s very honest, blunt, and direct to the point and sometimes corny. He let me known fr. the beg, about EVERYTHING. VERY HONEST even if it was ugly and we’re both on the same page.
The more i get to know him, he’s been “comfortable” and actin like a fool. Signs show he still is interested…he’ll notice little things about me, always flirting, supportive of what’s goin on w. me…we went out TWICE in 1 week…but he’s been CONFUSING me. He’s a predictable gentleman but is tryin to be “opposite” thinkin it will make me more intersted. He’s so caught up on what girls have told him in the past so he “warns me about it” “from what girls have said, good or bad
ANYWAY, i was FREAKED OUT fr that night and my defense mechanism was to be scared and be distant.He txtd me the next morning and i was bein confused/extra guarded so i gave him one word answrs. He was his normal self and i think he noticed me being distant so he stopped texting me. Looking back, he started acting weird WHEN I STARTED acting weird. I FINALLY talked to him/apologized and we cleared things out and asked if he was hinting/trying to scare me away and he said “no.” He was still flirty and still managed to be a little boy wanting to confuse me and admitting he had “game’. There was no contact for 3 full days. Finally he txtd hi and asked how i was. He said he was “busy w. work, working out, and planning trips and said he was tired”. I don’t get it…in the beg, he did all that stuff while texting me. He did change and wasn’t as childish…still joked/flirted a bit but kept it clean.
when i talked to him (same nite i apologized), i told him i never got him bc he was always joking…which isn’t a bad thing but i couldn’t tell if he was being serious or sarcastic…NOW he doesn’t joke as much and he’s serious and polite…? He doesn’t initiate anything anymore…though if I initiate, he’ll respond back… I’m a very old fashioned girl when it comes to love…I don’t play hard to get, I simply am but in this situation, I don’t know whether to step back or initiate more…. DO YOU THINK HE’S STILL INTERESTED? WHAT DO I DO? BE HARD TO GET OR TXT HIM?