Sienna's mommy
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To make a long story short, I'm 6 months pregnant by my ex-boyfriend. He's absolutely refused to talk to me since October, and even tried to have a restraining order put on me when I went by his house, trying to talk to him nicely about the situation. (The judge threw it out and told my ex-boyfriend not to waste anymore of the courts time.) His Mom has ignored the very polite emails I've sent her. I never asked for money and never tried to get her son back, I just basically told her I would like my baby to know his fathers side of the family, and that if she would like to be a grandma, she's more then welcome to. I've spent the last 6 months alone and pregnant, feeling like the world was crashing down around me. I also found out the baby will have special needs (heart problems) and is being taken out via c-section early because it's getting worse and he needs surgery., my ex and his family dont care. My ex has told people the reason he won't give blood to get tested to see if he's a match is because he doesn't want to have to have a baby with me. His sister has threatened me, theyve just been horrible to me.
Well, a few things have happened in the past 2 weeks...
- My exs mom was fired from her job. And her boss wasn't just any boss, it was her sister. Though I don't know the entire story behind it, obviously something went very wrong.
- His sister was diagnosed with a thyroid problem, which is why she's gained ALOT of weight the past few months. And it's going to be VERY hard for her to ever lose it. She went from being pretty slim, to being a VERY big girl in just a matter of months. It's not gonna kill her, but it made her heavy.
- His sister was in a car accident, and tore her rotator cuff and needs surgery.
- My ex got switched back to graveyard shift at his job. I know he's miserable, he hates working graveyards because he cant hang out with his friends anymore, and just never really seeing the sun makes him depressed and takes a toll on his body. He worked graveyard a few weeks while we were dating, and I saw a HUGE change in him.
- His Mom is also getting divorced. She left her husband because her husband wanted her son (my ex, who is 25 years old) to pay rent. She felt like he was picking on her son, so she left him and got a place just for her and my ex.
- My ex and his Mom live together in a condo, and are facing eviction if she can't find another job. My ex is paying all the rent, but doesn't make enough.
Is this coincidence, or do you think Karma really exists. I've been nothing but civil and polite to my ex and his family since I got pregnant, and theyve been nothing but mean and cruel to me. I've never lashed out at them, nothing. Is it wrong for me to find some joy in their bad situation? I honestly think it's hilarious, and when my mutual friend told me about everything thats been going on, I seriously felt alot better. I got alot of joy out of it. it's that totally wrong of me?
Well, a few things have happened in the past 2 weeks...
- My exs mom was fired from her job. And her boss wasn't just any boss, it was her sister. Though I don't know the entire story behind it, obviously something went very wrong.
- His sister was diagnosed with a thyroid problem, which is why she's gained ALOT of weight the past few months. And it's going to be VERY hard for her to ever lose it. She went from being pretty slim, to being a VERY big girl in just a matter of months. It's not gonna kill her, but it made her heavy.
- His sister was in a car accident, and tore her rotator cuff and needs surgery.
- My ex got switched back to graveyard shift at his job. I know he's miserable, he hates working graveyards because he cant hang out with his friends anymore, and just never really seeing the sun makes him depressed and takes a toll on his body. He worked graveyard a few weeks while we were dating, and I saw a HUGE change in him.
- His Mom is also getting divorced. She left her husband because her husband wanted her son (my ex, who is 25 years old) to pay rent. She felt like he was picking on her son, so she left him and got a place just for her and my ex.
- My ex and his Mom live together in a condo, and are facing eviction if she can't find another job. My ex is paying all the rent, but doesn't make enough.
Is this coincidence, or do you think Karma really exists. I've been nothing but civil and polite to my ex and his family since I got pregnant, and theyve been nothing but mean and cruel to me. I've never lashed out at them, nothing. Is it wrong for me to find some joy in their bad situation? I honestly think it's hilarious, and when my mutual friend told me about everything thats been going on, I seriously felt alot better. I got alot of joy out of it. it's that totally wrong of me?