Is this guy just talking to me so he can get sex?

[questionstobeanswered1234]

I had a class with this guy at the beginning of the year and we started talking over text messaging.
We talked in class but now that the class ended we don't talk in person but we still text(sounds stupid I know) I really like him but I can't tell if he is just talking to me so that we can hook up or he actually wants to talk to me.
He tells me I am cute and funny a lot and tells me to watch out for other guys in his grade.
He's two years older but he isn't a player at all.
Any advice for trying to talk to him at school or figuring out if he's just talking to me to get some?
Please don't be mean, I just need a little advice.

 

[princessmeltdown]

Well, my first impression is that he's not really interested in putting any effort into a relationship. Texting is low-effort and doesn't require any emotion or investment.

When you text, are you stroking his ego? If so, that may be what he likes about the interaction. I can't help feeling that if he wanted more than texting, he'd have made his move by now.

Back away from all the texting and see if it encourages him to put in any effort. Then you should have a better idea of what's going on.

As for the goal of sex, if you're thinking it, chances are you've already read him like a text book. If you find out you're right, how will you feel?

 

[hannahaye]

If he hasn't really said anything like sexual to you, then I don't know why you would think that.
But I would try hanging out with him just as friends and see how it goes, after that i'm sure you'll be able to tell a lot better exactly what he wants from you.