A few questions about my boyfriends love for jealousy...a bit long but please i need some advice
so recently we got into this argument about other girls.
the issue was he was getting all these messages on his phone and computer from other girls who like to joke in a sexual kind of way, deep down i know its only jokes. and he doesn't joke back the same way but he doesn't try to hide these messages from me or will even read them to me. we share a computer and when i go to use it they are usually right there in the open. its not like I go through his stuff and spy on him. but I get jealous very easily and he knows this.
when everything was finally settled i realized how stupid I was for being jealous as most of the girls who joke with him are mutual friends with me as well. when i confronted him about it he told me that it kind of turns him on when i get so jealous. i asked him if he was doing stuff like that on purpose to make me jealous and he said no but on the other hand he doesn't try to hide it either. because i have nothing to really worry about and the fact that he loves how jealous i get over him. im wondering if this is anything i should be concerned about.
what if he takes things a little too far?
why would this turn him on?
have you heard of this kind of behavior before?
and what can i do to prevent it?
is there something i can do to give that to him without hurting me emotionally all the time? -.-
when i get jealous im not an aggressive person but i do get really upset emotionally and i try not to be so jealous because i want a healthy relationship. and i trust him its other girls i don't trust.
I need advise. this cant continue like this..
so recently we got into this argument about other girls.
the issue was he was getting all these messages on his phone and computer from other girls who like to joke in a sexual kind of way, deep down i know its only jokes. and he doesn't joke back the same way but he doesn't try to hide these messages from me or will even read them to me. we share a computer and when i go to use it they are usually right there in the open. its not like I go through his stuff and spy on him. but I get jealous very easily and he knows this.
when everything was finally settled i realized how stupid I was for being jealous as most of the girls who joke with him are mutual friends with me as well. when i confronted him about it he told me that it kind of turns him on when i get so jealous. i asked him if he was doing stuff like that on purpose to make me jealous and he said no but on the other hand he doesn't try to hide it either. because i have nothing to really worry about and the fact that he loves how jealous i get over him. im wondering if this is anything i should be concerned about.
what if he takes things a little too far?
why would this turn him on?
have you heard of this kind of behavior before?
and what can i do to prevent it?
is there something i can do to give that to him without hurting me emotionally all the time? -.-
when i get jealous im not an aggressive person but i do get really upset emotionally and i try not to be so jealous because i want a healthy relationship. and i trust him its other girls i don't trust.
I need advise. this cant continue like this..