I am a 26 years old girl. I do believe in dressing the way you want to, and being/feeling attractive in the way you want to be........but I must admit - I think I don't like to dress / look / feel the way a lot of girls do...............
Going to clubs, I know most women dress in dresses too tiny, boobs hanging out, - I have no problem with that - I just want to know why even though i have a great body, I never want to do that? I dress nice, but always abit MASCULINE - tank top but not much cleavage or none....always PANTS, and heavier boots..not stilettos...
I do look attractive, but again sporty/slightly masculine.........I dont know why, but I always want to give the impression that I FEEL GOOD and LOOK GOOD - but Im not trying to get a man's attention or LUST.
Even when meeting a band I like this summer and having my picture taken with them - I knew tons of girls would dress more provocatively - but I refuse to....to me I PAYED to meet you - you're going to MEET me whether I look attractive to you or NOT so TOUGH.
I mean I get it - some girls like to be that way/dress that way...I have no qualms whatsoever...
Just that instead of dressing provocatively to feel validated my men......or to be with a man that has money or fame to feel validated again sexually......
I just dont get it - Id rather dress slightly boyish - be the one with money and well see if the GUY is good enough for me......
I dont hate women i dont - and i dont hate women who dress provocatively, just the social tendencies saying that WOMEN have to ..to be VALIDATED.
So am I rejecting gender classification or just rejecting femininity?
Going to clubs, I know most women dress in dresses too tiny, boobs hanging out, - I have no problem with that - I just want to know why even though i have a great body, I never want to do that? I dress nice, but always abit MASCULINE - tank top but not much cleavage or none....always PANTS, and heavier boots..not stilettos...
I do look attractive, but again sporty/slightly masculine.........I dont know why, but I always want to give the impression that I FEEL GOOD and LOOK GOOD - but Im not trying to get a man's attention or LUST.
Even when meeting a band I like this summer and having my picture taken with them - I knew tons of girls would dress more provocatively - but I refuse to....to me I PAYED to meet you - you're going to MEET me whether I look attractive to you or NOT so TOUGH.
I mean I get it - some girls like to be that way/dress that way...I have no qualms whatsoever...
Just that instead of dressing provocatively to feel validated my men......or to be with a man that has money or fame to feel validated again sexually......
I just dont get it - Id rather dress slightly boyish - be the one with money and well see if the GUY is good enough for me......
I dont hate women i dont - and i dont hate women who dress provocatively, just the social tendencies saying that WOMEN have to ..to be VALIDATED.
So am I rejecting gender classification or just rejecting femininity?