Is the fear of sex more common than I think?

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pico

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I am 23 years old and only had sex twice in my life. Both timws when I was 18. I don't know why but the thought od intercourse scares me. I have no problem with foreplay, just the final result that it usually leads to. I have ruined two relationships because of it already and its about to ruin a third. Is this more common than I think and how can I get over it?
To elaborate: I am male and the "final result" of foreplay is intercourse. Its not a fear of getting anyone pregnant or anything... Its just sex in its own. When me and my girl mess around I KNOW she wants to go the rest of the way but I always find some excuse to prevent it and this is causing relationships because as the other poster put it, I won't "put out".
 
You didn't really elaborate the final result, as you said. Or whether you're male or female. Do you mean having orgasms bother you ? Or you have trouble having them? Or it bothers you when your partner would C*m? Or if you are male when you C*m? Lastly are you worried about getting pregnant (if female) or you partner pregnant?

You might have severe "performance anxiety."

I would suggest talking to a professional about it. I don't think it's common--but of course it does happen.
 
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