My mom is always depressed and upset with the way marriage and family life turned out for her. She use to always nag nag my dad all the time about stuff mainly about money and why he's not spending money to get this done or that done. He is a very hardworker who is pulling all the weight in the family and taking care of my mom the best he can. I feel bad for him sometimes because he works like 24/7 and he be so tired from work. He is too tied up paying all the bills and keeping a roof over our head including my fussy mom. I blame her in a way. The reason is because every since she "SUPPOSEDLY" had to quit her job years ago due to health reasons she has gotten too comfy leaning on my dad to do all the providing for the house. I thought marriage was 50/50. Now years after she CLAIMS she was not fit to work again. She goes and get a job working at he friends day care, meaning working around sick kids and all. How is it she can be too unfit to work the job she quit at the Hospital and years later get a job working at a day care? I honestly believe she could have kept working years ago. She just didn't want to work because having my dad taking care of everything gives her something to feel good about and talk about to her friends who do work and takes care of themselves without the need of their working husbands. I feel she should not complain to my dad about what he needs to do and what should be done when she is doing nothing herself but complain. Now reality sunk in her for quite sometime now because now she is bitter that everyone has a job and pulling their own weight and getting the things they want and need without looking for a handout.
Is she right or wrong to complain about it?
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