This girl and I used to like each other over Facebook (we're going to be freshmen at the same college). But I confronted her on Thursday because I thought she was leading me on, we got into a big argument, and we haven't talked much since. Sunday, I asked if we could talk about our argument -- not to place blame, but to get through our problems as friends, and she said she'd be too busy this week. Today, I've been considering the whole matter and sent her the following:
-- (possibly didn't send) You know what? I'm done.
-- Or maybe not. (in response to asking her to text me yesterday). You are treating me like dirt. All I did was support you and like you, wanting nothing in return. Then I do one offensive thing and you burn your bridges. You didn't even do that to that weirdo* who IMed you when we were talking. Yet you'll not think twice about doing it to me for telling you when something bothers me. It doesn't matter that I was always looking out for you, or that you were already one of my good friends, or anything. One strike, and I'm out of your friendship. I thought you weren't like that. Is that the way you treat people? Because if it is, maybe I should just stop. I don't know. You tell me.
*There was a guy who was sending her perverted messages that she kept joking around with.
She replied, before the entire message had sent, that she "really doesn't have time to talk about this right now." Now I'm trying to interpret things. I'm ready to let her go. But almost just out of curiosity, based on this incident I wonder if she ever really felt anything true for me, and if she ever will again. And I wonder if, because I'm starting to care about her less, I ever genuinely cared about her. And I wonder if this is just passing, and if it is, how I should respond if she comes back. What do you think?
-- (possibly didn't send) You know what? I'm done.
-- Or maybe not. (in response to asking her to text me yesterday). You are treating me like dirt. All I did was support you and like you, wanting nothing in return. Then I do one offensive thing and you burn your bridges. You didn't even do that to that weirdo* who IMed you when we were talking. Yet you'll not think twice about doing it to me for telling you when something bothers me. It doesn't matter that I was always looking out for you, or that you were already one of my good friends, or anything. One strike, and I'm out of your friendship. I thought you weren't like that. Is that the way you treat people? Because if it is, maybe I should just stop. I don't know. You tell me.
*There was a guy who was sending her perverted messages that she kept joking around with.
She replied, before the entire message had sent, that she "really doesn't have time to talk about this right now." Now I'm trying to interpret things. I'm ready to let her go. But almost just out of curiosity, based on this incident I wonder if she ever really felt anything true for me, and if she ever will again. And I wonder if, because I'm starting to care about her less, I ever genuinely cared about her. And I wonder if this is just passing, and if it is, how I should respond if she comes back. What do you think?