Is sex really not important at all to some girls? (question for 18+ girls) - about my

Adam M.

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sister? So is sex really not a big of a deal to some girls? I thought college-age girls wanted it as much as guys did? Well, I'm just asking because my sister (sorority girl) is dating a guy that she admits "totally sucks in bed". I actually like the guy - he's really nice. But he's really really "nerdy" if you know what I mean (not saying its a bad thing). She also said she'd rate his looks a "5/10". They do have the exact same interests like same major, same birthday, etc...

So do some girls really not have sex at all or not care about it? I thought most girls wanted it as much as guys did at this age?
 
I going to go out on a limb here and think maybe she loves him for his personality. That is what love is, loving them for who they are. Apparently you can't grasp this. Jerk. I feel bad for your girlfriend/wife.
 
I'm female and 22 and just being honest. I don't enjoy sex, but I think that it's because I was raped when I was 19 and that was my first time. I've tried to enjoy it since I started properly having sex last year but it doesn't do much for me. Only 3 or 4 of my female friends are "so so" about sex, whereas the majority want it most of the time. A lot of girls love sex at this age, but definitely not all.
Hope this helps :)
 
Some do. but i wouldn't think that bad sex is necessarily a deal breaker. It's something that could always be improved on. Maybe she's just looking for a companion, or someone that is safe, rather than someone that she really wants to give her heart to.
 
Well, I don't know about most people. I definitely did in college, and that actually hasn't changed. I'm only 25 though.
 
Well, I don't know about most people. I definitely did in college, and that actually hasn't changed. I'm only 25 though.
 
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