Is sex good or bad for a relationship?

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Me and my girlfriend have talked about sex a few times now. We're both ready to make that jump from being virgins to having sex for both of our first times. My concern is that I've heard some people say sex is what ruined their relationship and others have said it made their relationship stronger and work out in the end. I'm not sure what side to go with.
 
it all depends, are you married, are you ready, are you too young. if your not mature enough for it then its bad. if your not married potentially bad. if your not ready, really bad
 
it is better to wait until marriage because it feels way more special that way and its going to have more of a feeling of true commitment
just wait until its the right time...if u aren't married than whats stopping her from breaking up with u the next day...there's no responsibilities holding her to u
 
It actully wont reck ur relationship cuz if u have sex with her all shes ganna wnt to do is just have sex wit you
 
If both of you have discussed how strongly you feel about eachother, what your future plans are together, and what would happen in all scenarios (if it does go badly, do you work through it? if she gets pregnant, what will both of you do?) and you both still feel ready and responsible enough, you should do what your heart tells you.
Make sure you have ALL birth control options taken care of and talk to your parents letting them know first through, that way everyone is prepared for the worst.
 
Sex is only a part of one's relationship.

RE:I've heard some people say sex is what ruined their relationship
........that's because they probably had bad relationship skills regardless of the sex.

and others have said it made their relationship stronger and work out in the end.
....by 'work out', I'd imagine they had some good relationship skills in addition to the sex.

the MAIN THING is KNOWING how to make a good relationship which requires good relationship skills.
 
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