is role playing something you have to discuss with your husband first?

[sugar-glider queen]

or can you just pop in wearing something naughty (school girl uniform.. cop..) and hope he goes with it?

are there any guys that would be put off by not deciding to do this before it happened?
yeah it does.. but could a guy just go with it. it isn't like i was going to write out my entire idea.. i don't need another VN.