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TGIF!!!!
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Last night on one of my many attempts to make love with my husband, he seemed to be as always(since i got pregnant) evasive and not in the mood....
The only position we can do it now it has become boring for me so i wanted to be on top to change things up, so he doesnt feel he has to do all the work all the times. It was going well i thought, he seemd to be enjoying it very very much.....till all of the sudden he told me to stop because my thighs were burning his hips with the friction......he is a big man and is hard for me to actually ride him but ive found a very effective way to please him and he loves it and has never complaint....he is full of complaints and pains when he doesnt want to do something, he comes up with the most outrageous excuses never heard before.
So then at that point i tell him we can finish on the other position (the boring one) if he'd like, he tells me well do i have a choice? i said yes, you could either not finish at all or we can finish the other way....all this with a lot of love, but inside i was dying!!!
How can he tell me if he has a choice like if making love was a chore? i havent had good love making in months, everything is a quicky and i have to practically beg for it and then he just falls asleep, not cuddling nothing!! ive told him how it makes me feel when he acts this way, his answer is: this is exactly why i didnt want to have sex, cause you always find something wrong!!
Im young, sexy, haven gained weight on places other than my belly and my boobs which he loves them even more now....he gets aroused by my touch and when im naked but he treats me in a different way that it makes me feel like if i had to just wait for him and only him to want me and come around....i feel unsexy even though i know i am sexy, unpretty when i know i am pretty, things are weird and is a different issue everyday, between the dead of his social life and his lack of tact, i am the most miserable woman ever.....he doesnt even text me anymore because he says he doesnt want things to get old!!! our daily communication has declined big time.....from 10 to 2....i dont know what to do anymore....is this a commun behaviour of expectant fathers??? will he ever go back to be the man i fell in love with????
The only position we can do it now it has become boring for me so i wanted to be on top to change things up, so he doesnt feel he has to do all the work all the times. It was going well i thought, he seemd to be enjoying it very very much.....till all of the sudden he told me to stop because my thighs were burning his hips with the friction......he is a big man and is hard for me to actually ride him but ive found a very effective way to please him and he loves it and has never complaint....he is full of complaints and pains when he doesnt want to do something, he comes up with the most outrageous excuses never heard before.
So then at that point i tell him we can finish on the other position (the boring one) if he'd like, he tells me well do i have a choice? i said yes, you could either not finish at all or we can finish the other way....all this with a lot of love, but inside i was dying!!!
How can he tell me if he has a choice like if making love was a chore? i havent had good love making in months, everything is a quicky and i have to practically beg for it and then he just falls asleep, not cuddling nothing!! ive told him how it makes me feel when he acts this way, his answer is: this is exactly why i didnt want to have sex, cause you always find something wrong!!
Im young, sexy, haven gained weight on places other than my belly and my boobs which he loves them even more now....he gets aroused by my touch and when im naked but he treats me in a different way that it makes me feel like if i had to just wait for him and only him to want me and come around....i feel unsexy even though i know i am sexy, unpretty when i know i am pretty, things are weird and is a different issue everyday, between the dead of his social life and his lack of tact, i am the most miserable woman ever.....he doesnt even text me anymore because he says he doesnt want things to get old!!! our daily communication has declined big time.....from 10 to 2....i dont know what to do anymore....is this a commun behaviour of expectant fathers??? will he ever go back to be the man i fell in love with????