Is my "Friend" making me feel bad about my appearance ???? or just joking?

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[Not to seem Obnoxious] But I have always felt happy with what i have/Satisfied....But my friend always tell me something about my appearance and then laughs, then apologizes.

Like I slept over at her house, and she took a picture of me, without me covering my slightly black area under my eyes, and then after a while she told me she showed it to a friend [that I don't know...but she is real] That did I sleep well before taking the picture... and then she was like I am sorry I shouldn't have told you this, don't hate my friend.

And before I get braces [I had a gap] she took a picture of me, and showed it to her boyfriend, and told me he laughed so hard !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and kept making comments on it, and said they are cute give it to me in a sarcastic way...and then she laughed and said I am sorry don't hate him.

Is she making me feel bad about myself???!
I don't get it she is GORGEOUS! she is naturally Blonde (medium length hair), Pale, Hazel eyes, Tall, thin [Lebanese look]
and I am slightly tanned, brown eyes, dark long brown hair, deep arab features [The gulf arab look] quite tall but shorter than her, and thin.
 
Honestly this person doesnt sound like a real friend if she is saying things like that. Like alot of the others said she sounds like she is jealous. Not to mention with the constant oh so and so said they thought this, oh dont hate them. Sounds like a way she is trying to play off what she is thinking. I mean it is completely possible she doesnt realize its hurting you but common sense you would think would say she would. So your best bet is speak to her ask her did they really say that and what did she say back to them? did she stand up for you and if not why? make her realize that it isnt funny, some people whether you are or not, are very insecure about people bashing there looks. You need to speak to her if you feel your friendship is important other wise just tell her you dont want to associate with people like that any more. Good luck hun!
 
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she acts jealouse
maybe you have something she doesnt
obviously u have a better character than she does and she wants to make u look ugly so she would look better than you do coz she cant compare to your character
i have a friend in school...and i never got any zit or pimple and there was one day i got one and i was pretty big and ugly and she started to yell ''NANA GOT A ZIT!'' and she showed it to every1 and she laughed wtf!?...jealousy.. makes ppl acts very wierd and lose control
i say do the same to her
take a bad pisture of her and lie to her you showed it 2 some1 and they laughed
and SHE WILL GET PISSED OFF then its the chance to explain to her the way u feeled when she did this
and later tell her u lied about showing it COZ U DONT WANT TO EMBARACE UR FRIENDS like she does!
that will make her understand :D
good luck
if she wont stop
find an other frined THT BRINGS OUT THE BEST OF U! NOT THE BAD SIDE!
 
OMG hahahah that happened to me too???looolz and u noe what i did?i beat hiss azz up REAL bad....

it just that this "friend" is just making fun of u cuz she is just jealous of u secretly and EXTREMELY insecure and she cant take revenge on u in any OTHER way.....u noe i would steer clear of such people.....
my ex-friend was pale,he was nice looking,,,but he thought i was a compatition---looolz im tan,auburn hair,green eyes(no to sound conceited) lol....but that is what it is---dont feel bad,laugh when she makes a joke(then the joke would be on her),and if she crosses the limit---teach her such a lesson,that she NEVER EVEN LAUGHS..."muaahahahahahah"

have fun
xoxo
 
OMG hahahah that happened to me too???looolz and u noe what i did?i beat hiss azz up REAL bad....

it just that this "friend" is just making fun of u cuz she is just jealous of u secretly and EXTREMELY insecure and she cant take revenge on u in any OTHER way.....u noe i would steer clear of such people.....
my ex-friend was pale,he was nice looking,,,but he thought i was a compatition---looolz im tan,auburn hair,green eyes(no to sound conceited) lol....but that is what it is---dont feel bad,laugh when she makes a joke(then the joke would be on her),and if she crosses the limit---teach her such a lesson,that she NEVER EVEN LAUGHS..."muaahahahahahah"

have fun
xoxo
 
I do not think that she is a good friend... friends shouldn't make you feel bad about yourself. I know how you feel though, when this one friend of mine always said i was stupid and would be like haha nah im just kidding. But she did it so much it really annoyed me. Eventually i snapped and yelled at her and asked if calling me stupid made her feel better cause i had better grades. I regret doing that but she stopped and we are still friends, but maybe you just need to tell her that it really hurts you when she does these things. Maybe she is insecure and you think she is GORGEOUS but she thinks YOU are GORGEOUS :p Im sure she needs to make herself feel better and doing that she hurts you, knowingly or unknowingly. Sorry i cant tell you if she realizes she is doing it or not, best thing is to talk to her about it. Hope things turn out well. :) Good luck, i bet you are gorgeous, prettier then HER :)
 
she jealous and stupid and insecure
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