im not a virgin anymore but when i had sex for the first time i never bled, i had sex a lot too, and i was pretty sure the hymen (cherry) was broken because i could feel my cervix. a couple months later (after i hadn't had sex for a while) someone fingered me and i bled did they "pop my cherry"? i had already had my period so it wasn't that either. i don't know what else it could be.