think he is....? My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years now and have lived together for most of it. Everytime we argue he says things that stick in my head....for example a couple days ago we got into an argument and I made a comment about how alot of my ex boyfriends still want me back and he said "yeah, for sex." Which made me think he is just with me for sex if he thinks thats why my ex boyfriends want me back... He also never meantions my personality he just always says "because you're pretty"...or I don't want a "pretty" girl anymore....he also said we shouldn't be together because you're always sick anyways... which I am (I have stomach problems and I also feel sick) but it never interferes in our relationship, if anything I just won't want to have sex... which is what he was refering too...is he just saying things to hurt me or do you think he is just using me?