I have a hard time trying to understand why my family members react or behave the way they do, and it bothers me. They seem to have a love/hate relationship with drama , which only causes uneccesary stress for me.
I've tried discussing these issues with my mother, but because she also hates the drama, she doesn't want to hear it. If I talk with other family members, I'm at risk of being criticized or they'll tell the rest of my family that I said such and such about them.
I've been keeping my thoughts and emotions for them for 7 years and I've noticed they are getting to me especially when I'm in school.
So I come on here to discuss their actions (and get input). I'm planning on seeing a psychologist mainly about them.
But most of the things I say are negative...does this seem wrong? I either keep it al in and not say a word or tell everything and be labeled as a backstabber...
I've tried discussing these issues with my mother, but because she also hates the drama, she doesn't want to hear it. If I talk with other family members, I'm at risk of being criticized or they'll tell the rest of my family that I said such and such about them.
I've been keeping my thoughts and emotions for them for 7 years and I've noticed they are getting to me especially when I'm in school.
So I come on here to discuss their actions (and get input). I'm planning on seeing a psychologist mainly about them.
But most of the things I say are negative...does this seem wrong? I either keep it al in and not say a word or tell everything and be labeled as a backstabber...