Is it wrong to judge your mother on the way she raises my brother?

F***y M*F**t

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My 3 year old brother isn't starting school till september but my mother never cares about taking him out which annoys me. I'm the one who makes the effort to take him out to like kids activity centres and the library and the park etc. Sometimes, I can't cos I'm tired and want to sleep or I'm late (I go to college which is not university in America).

My dad works nights so basically, all through when I'm in school, he just sleeps or plays with his toys or watches TV which I'm pretty sure is not good for him. I worry about his eyes cos he gets no natural light sometimes although I don't mind about his health cos he plays rough a lot likw jumping and running and fighting with my brother and I tell my mum to reduce his chocolate intake.

I've told my mum on two occassions now to take him out just when she's going out like going to church or going to pick my brother up from school but she doesn't take care of him - I don't know why. She says she's tired but I don't see how taking him to places when she's less busy is tiring.

then whenever I plan on taking him to places, she'll be all like, 'Oh. Maybe I can take him or I'll take him next week.' She'll promise but then wouldn't do it.

Am I being too harsh on my mum by judgung her like this cos it really annoys me how she just leaves him at home cos its basically easier for her. (Especially since whenever we go to my aunty's place, my aunty NEVER minds taking him along with her when she goes out - for long periods of time and she wouldn't complain.
 
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