Is it wrong to have a CSP (casual sex partner) ?

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I'm a girl and i have this boy i've been sleeping with lately but he wants more and i dont think i can see myself officially dating him. is it wrong to just want the comfort of a male to make me happy.?
*haha no, not 14, nearly 18
** i think he wants the same thing, i'll have to see what happens i guess.
*** and yes, we use protection :)
 
Sorry, read the question wrong! LoL.

There's nothing wrong with a casual sex partner. But make sure you want to have sex because you want it. If you just want a screwing partner even though you don't see each other going anywhere, that's fine. Just make sure it's something you want and not because of the pressure he's putting on you. If you do have sex remember to use a condom everytime to prevent catching any STD's. Remember, you're sleeping with every person he's slept with.
 
if you're using him to get what you want, you should give him something in return. try it out! maybe a relationship wouldn't be so bad (:
 
well if it's both of you wanting the same thing, why not
if the other person starts to have feelins, not good anymore. can cause problems!
 
First off, this isn't a CSP as you call it, but "friends with benefits." Second, there's nothing wrong with it, but if you aren't clear about what you want out of the situation & he gets the wrong idea, you have no one to blame but yourself.
 
Its not wrong no if both people get what they want out of it! but im afraid someone always wants more and someone always gets hurt!
 
You say he wants to be in a relationship with you. For that reason, it IS wrong. He's going to get hurt, and you know that. Imagine if the situation were reversed - you really wanted to be with a guy, but he just wanted you for sex. How would that make you feel?

Get out of the situation, for both your sakes.
 
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