Is it wrong that I turned down THE best looking girl for sex?

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At 16 we had dated for more than a year and she was ready but I wasn't. I turned her down and eventually lost her. 5 years later and we are loose friends but we do chat. She always puts me down about it though, and I haven't dated since me and her broke up because of it. Is it really that wrong? I thought I was doing the mature thing, but now I feel like the freak. Any thoughts?
 
If you didn't feel ready or like you could go through with it then there is nothing wrong with not having had sex with her when you had the chance. What you're doing wrong is that you are still kicking yourself about not having gone all the way with this chick. You should get yourself back into dating and get over the fact that you didn't have sex with this chick. If she is single and you feel up to it you could even date this girl and see where it goes, maybe you would have things turn out better the second time around. Out of curiosity, why does she still put you down about the fact that you didn't sleep with her?
 
She's an idiot.
Don't let someone bring you down for being a morally great guy.
Next time you date someone, and get close to them... tell them that story. A girl would be lucky to have a guy like you.
 
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