Is it wrong or weird to like a boy two years younger than me?

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I'm a 16 year old girl, and generally i liked older boys, but for some reason there's this boy at my school and i have the hugest crush on him... but he's 14! When i think about it, i find it a little weird, but when i'm around him, it really doesn't bother me... I'm extremely shy around him and end up running away because i know he knows i like him... but i really want to do something about it... i'm going to college soon and i cant make my mind up whether to tell him i like him or just try and forget about him... because even though the age gaps a little weird now, in a couple of years it wont matter at all... what do you think?
 
Nah. it's wrong or weird.
I've liked younger guys before. I actually dated someone three years younger, but i've dated guys three years older as well. I date whoever i want to.
 
ok I am 17 and i am going into college and i happen to like a boy who is 15. All my friends think it is kind of weird and whenever we get an inch too close they make a huge deal about it. So even though he is super cute, he is way to immature to even be considered as a possibility.

I'm sticking to older guys and suggest you do too. Good Luck <3
 
NO!!!!
i have
no had a crush on a sixth grader and i'm in the 8th grade! i do feel REALLY weird talking to him but i like him you know! but i know were your coming from
 
listen to mel....don't under any circumstances in your life wonder "what if?" no regrets all the way. btw when i was in 7th grade i had eight graders tell me they liked me they even openly told everyone they liked me some where about 2 years older. ima guy btw...
 
i know how u feel. its not weird. unless hes shorter. how the heck did he find out? u shouldnt repeat it to his face.... um just try talking to him at first.
 
In 3 years you'll laugh about this. No 14yr old guy ive ever met has been a good bf lol ive watched and laughed back in junior high. I was the dateless wonder back them but looking back on it now thats not a big deal lol Hope it works out!
 
hmm I dont know your 16 and right now hes still under age but your right about time catching up. your going to college already and your 16? I thought thats when your around 18? Honestly I dont know I guess get to know him as a friend and all maybe when some years pass you can go out with him if you still like him.
 
tell him how you feel, but i wouldnt try and date him. this is coming from a guy that has been 14 before. 14 year old guys are IMMATURE and unable to have a relationship. no matter how hard they try, they are such retards when it comes to relationships. he probly still thinks u have cooties
 
it's not uncommon, especially if your a relatively immature 16 yo or hes a mature 14 yo (i wouldnt know). the best thing to do would either be to ignore him (not suggested, but an option) or just be friends with him first. Then, ones people are used to you two hanging out a lot, it won't be a surprise when/if you start going out. Also, you could always just be secret friends with benefits.
 
i dont think it is wrong at all or wierd because the fact that my parents are 4 yrs apart then my sisters 1 yr apart lets put it this way guys die first cause they work harder usually its easier to get a young one is what ppl tell me
 
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