Is it wrong for your Girlfriend to go to the movies with another dude after it was

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discussed not to go? OK here is the Story, I am a college student that works two jobs and a Girlfriend for a year and a couple of weeks. The Issue is that Me and her have different views on going out and so forth. The thing is that She likes to go out a lot and I am more of a Home Body due to me being sheltered all of my life. My Girlfriend has a "Friend" that she works with at the Verizon center here in Washington DC, so for a couple of weeks she been Talking to this dude for a little while and what makes me real angry about this is that She talks to him sometimes at a real late time like between 11pm to 12:30am. When that occurred, I had say something about that, so that stopped immediately.

Now the Big issue is that she was asking me if she can go to the movies with this dude 1 month ago and I said that i don't really think she should go and she said OK, so just 2 days ago I realized that I was overreacting about this '"Friend" until she said she haves something to tell me, so I was like "Ok what is it?" after she said that, she was playing games with me which made me real angry, so finally she came clean and told me that she went to the movies with that dude 1 month ago after we discussed that I didn't really want her to go. We had a big argument about it and she to this day doesn't think she was wrong for going with dude to the movies because at the time She claimed that I didn't have time for her, but the thing about that is I was working and going to school on that day that they went to the movies. She says it was innocent and he is just a friend nothing has happen. During that time I got the second job it was really hard for me to see her cuz I was going to school and right after that I had to go to work pretty much everyday after school. I think that it was wrong and she didn't respect my wishes cuz she wanted to go out so bad. Me being in a relationship I wouldn't do that to her no matter who the girl is

Do you guys think that it was wrong for her to go to the movies after I pretty much said no? What do you guys think I should do?
 
Yea I think thats pretty wrong.I mean she sounds lonely though maybe you should take a break from her when your not so busy hang out with her and if theres something still there give it another go.But that was totally disrespectful to you as a person bf or not.
 
If she's lying to you, then there is a problem.

Get rid of her, she's just going to rip your heart out.
 
I think because you did ask her not to accompany this guy to the movies she should have respected you and told the guy she couldn't go.

A very similar situation occurred with me and my boyfriend where i was hanging out with a very close male friend of mines and he did not approve. Although our friendship was purely inocent i did have to respect my boyfriend and stop talking to him late at night and on the regular basis like i use to and going out with him (including the movies. lol)

If his feelings werent important to me, then i would have continued to be friends with this guy the same way and just do what ever the hell i wanted.
 
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