Is it wrong for me to not let my ex-mother-in-law see my children, knowing that...

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...they're scared of her? About a year ago, my children and I ran away from their father and haven't been bothered by him ever since. I guess cus he doesn't know where we live. Plus we have a PFA against him.

But his mother knows that his sister knows where we live. His sister knows not to tell her mother where we live, because then she'll tell my ex and she won't leave us alone. His sister is the only sane person in their family. My oldest daughter doesn't like her grandmother because she makes her feel uncomfortable. So why should I please that wicked witch of the east? Yes, she has spoiled my daughter and I with gifts, in the past. But that shouldn't be her way of getting us to love her. She needs to learn self control, how to love others, anger management, patience, and all the other good stuff. Am I wrong?
 
I think because of the history of your relationship with your ex-husband, that would be a good enough reason why your children won't be seeing their grandmother this year.

If she is someone who would tell your ex where you are, then you will have to relocate as someone had mentioned. You and your kids safety are good enough reason to not allow her to see them.

What if they decided to invite the kids over and their father just shows up? That would happen, most likely. Plus, why should your kids be put in an abusive situation? If something happened, you would be liable for leaving your children in their care.

Most of the time I believe kids should see their grandparents and that differences between adults should be put aside. But this situation is a lot different and should be treated like an exception.
 
nope ur right. if they are scared of her then y would u let them see her? your putting your childs intrests first which is what anyone should do.
 
keep your kids away from this lady - if for nothing else, for everyones safety. you dont really want to have to relocate again right now do you?
 
keep your kids away from this lady - if for nothing else, for everyones safety. you dont really want to have to relocate again right now do you?
 
keep your kids away from this lady - if for nothing else, for everyones safety. you dont really want to have to relocate again right now do you?
 
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